Can you ignite your soul while holding down a corporate job?
In 2021, amidst the turbulence of a global pandemic, my life felt like a whirlwind of responsibilities and aspirations. Enrolled in a demanding graduate coaching program at the University of Texas, my evenings were dedicated to live sessions, each lasting three hours, three nights a week. Meanwhile, my husband assumed the role of full-time caregiver to our energetic three-year-old, who demanded constant attention and supervision.
Yet, amidst this chaos, I found a rhythm that defied the conventional boundaries of time and energy. By day, I navigated the corporate landscape at EY, even finding opportunities to provide internal coaching support to new directors. Through negotiation and determination, I carved out a flexible work arrangement, allowing me to maintain a 35–45-hour workweek. It was a delicate balancing act, akin to managing multiple full-time jobs, yet strangely, it never felt too overwhelming.
You see, having the right support system in place was my saving grace. The flexibility in my work schedule and the unwavering support from my family enabled me to pursue my passions. In the years that followed, I delved into additional coaching certifications, writing classes, and even virtual hip hop sessions during busy seasons. Each pursuit added layers of fulfillment and purpose to my life, propelling me forward on my journey of personal and professional growth.
In the midst of this whirlwind, I stumbled upon John Garrett's book, "What's Your And?" which reinforced the idea that our passions outside of work are not mere distractions, but rather catalysts for success. Creative expression, I discovered, unlocks dormant potential within us, making us more effective in our professional endeavors.
Yet, I am acutely aware that not everyone has the privilege of such support and flexibility. Many are constrained by the rigidity of their roles or the lack of flexibility from their employers. It is a reality that I do not take lightly.
For me, I eventually realized that I wanted to intertwine my passions with my professional pursuits, but I acknowledge that this path is not for everyone. What truly matters is finding the support and resources that allow you to engage in activities that ignite your soul, regardless of your career trajectory.
So, I pose a question to you.
What support do you need to cultivate a life where your passions coexist with your professional aspirations?
Let’s strive to create environments where such pursuits are not just encouraged but celebrated. For in nurturing our passions, we nourish our souls and allow our truest selves to emerge.
The world needs who we were made to be.