Do It Your Way

As I dive deeper into my creative journey as an author, my inner critic often tags along, uninvited. Creating art—whether it's through words, visual expression, or performance—demands vulnerability. It’s a raw extension of the soul, and yet, there’s no prescribed path. At least, that’s what I keep reminding myself.

Of course, that’s easier said than done. Imposter syndrome has a funny way of creeping in, especially when you’re charting unfamiliar territory. The late-night whispers of “your work isn’t good enough” feel like a veil for the real fear: “I’m not good enough.” And, honestly, I’ve let myself spiral a few times. The whirlwind of marketing and publicizing my book, all the choices and strategies—it can feel like too much. So many directions to go in, and I often catch myself spinning in circles of indecision.

But then, I remember: I get to choose. I can say no to anything that doesn’t align. I get to decide which expert advice to follow and which to leave by the wayside. I’m the one steering this ship, and that realization is so freeing. With every reminder that I’m at the helm, the weight of expectations and opinions lifts.

Teddy Roosevelt once said, "Comparison is the thief of joy." And let me tell you, I’m not here for joy-stealing. I want more joy in my life, not less. So, I’m choosing to lean into what lights me up. I’m focusing on the activities, the practices, and the creative endeavors that let me play, express, and—most importantly—enjoy the process. I’m done playing by someone else’s rules. How liberating is that?

Who’s with me on this wild, creative adventure where we get to write our own rules and chart our own course?

There are no rules in this creative life. I’m excited to pace myself, choose my direction, and embrace what’s to come.

For the world needs who we were meant to be.

Cheers!