Are you “all in” on your life?

This summer, I found myself exploring a few job opportunities that unexpectedly came across my path. While I was quite clear when I retired from accounting this spring that I didn’t want to return, I also believe in staying open to unexpected possibilities.

One opportunity in particular was intriguing enough to give me pause. During our conversation, the recruiter expressed curiosity about all the projects and passions I’m currently pursuing and, with some skepticism, questioned whether I was truly interested in going back to accounting. To be honest, I wasn’t entirely sure either.

As he outlined the job’s requirements, he emphasized one non-negotiable: I’d need to be “all in.” This meant shelving all the other endeavors that bring me joy—hiding them, even—so I could fully focus on the role.

I could feel my chest tighten as he spoke. The idea of returning to a box, one where I’d have to mute the creative freedom and fulfillment I’ve experienced recently, caused a physical reaction. The more I listened, the clearer my answer became. My body was screaming a full-throated no.

At that moment, I faced a choice: I could continue the interview process, pretending I wasn’t pulled in other directions, or I could graciously bow out. I chose the latter, thanking the recruiter for making my decision so easy. And just like that, I felt an overwhelming sense of relief.

A high-paying, prestigious job that demanded I be “all in” no longer held the same appeal. Because if I’m going to be all in on anything, I want it to be my life—the life I’m building now, full of purpose, creativity, and freedom.

Are you all in on your life? What does that look like for you?

I’d love to hear your thoughts. Feel free to drop a comment—because the world needs who you were made to be.